I have been thru alot of changes in the past few years. I did not like me, my attitude, my appearance and slowly i have come along. I have anxiety and OCD (mostly obsessive). I hate change and freak out if someone alters from my plans. I have learned in the past few weeks that alot stems from my childhood and while I had an "ah ha" moment, I shared it with my husband and we eventually ended up in an argument. He felt I was unhappy with him and that he can't ever make me happy, when I was trying to tell him the oppposite.......SO how do you have a conversation and end it on a good note and not looking like the evil witch. Long story short, he is going thru his own turmoil and we seem to misunderstand eachother, and i don't want to argue all the time. It seems i misunderstand everything and am way to sensitive