Love, Purpose, and Life's Little Imperfections > My whole house is a mess!
First of all sorry to be so long getting back to you. second of all: I feel your pain. Sometimes I feel like my whole house is a mess too but when I sit and quietly contemplate things, it turns out I'm wrong. This is me here so I am not saying you're wrong but consider this: If you are healthy you have something to build on. Got the bathroom under control, at least. Maybe you're weight or skin isn't what you wish (now I'm speaking about me again, since I've gained some weight back and my pimples are out of control). But I am basically healthy and active so that is a start.
Next: your kids. They are happy and independent and moving through their lives with grace and goals and I think we have to give ourselves credit as parents that, while we may not be with them every minute physically, we are attached. After all, we helped "launch" them and still support them in any way we can and that they require, and they know you love them every single day.So the kids room is not a mess, in fact it's pretty clean since you've done a good job on the parenting front!
Next think about the fact that you have a job (your office is intact), a friendship circle (the living room is pretty good), and of course things you love to do that bring you joy (that would be what you think about in your tenth room). For me living an active life and inspiring other women to take charge of their lives brings me joy, for you it may be something creative like music, art, decorating, or simply reading. Everyone has one or more activity that truly brings a smile to their face. Go to your own "tenth room" and think about what it is for you. Then figure out how to do more of it.
Romance is the issue it sounds like. Try to think of the bedroom as an extension of you. If you love yourself and take care of yourself, you will find someone else who does also, and who you can take care of back. It's a step by step process, this thing called happiness. That's why you get to shut the door on the messy rooms and exist in the "clean" or bright ones. Just recognize where those are and be aware that even when everything feels like a mess there are spots of hope and things to be grateful for, every day. I know I have to remind myself at times to see the good and not focus on the bad. That in itself can make you feel happier right now. Hope that helps.
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